We have all felt that moment of sheer panic when we can’t find our wallet or keys. It’s frustrating and disorienting. Now, picture this happening multiple times per day, along with an overwhelming sense of confusion and fear. This situation is a common part of life for loved ones with dementia. To make things even more distressing, your loved one with dementia may be hiding the objects themselves, often in places you’re not likely to look.
Why would someone with dementia hide things? When it comes to dementia-related hiding behavior, there are several key issues that may be at play.
- Reduced organizational skills: It might become challenging for someone with dementia to understand the purpose of everyday items or recall where they should be. Hiding items can be a misdirected attempt at organization, one way to manage the daunting task of keeping tabs on their environment.
- Memory loss and confusion: Hiding items may be a symptom of the confusion and memory loss that accompany dementia. As memory fades, a person with dementia may not be able to remember where they put their belongings, leading them to hide items in what seems like a secure spot. This action can give them a feeling of security and help alleviate their anxiety about losing things.
- Paranoia and suspicion: Dementia often triggers an elevated sense of suspicion and paranoia. The person may become suspicious of those around them, fearing that others might steal their belongings. This increased sense of mistrust can prompt them to hide their belongings in order to protect them.
- Need for engagement: Rummaging and hiding can be a form of engagement or activity for someone with dementia. As they lose the capacity to engage in more complex activities, these simpler actions can provide a sense of purpose and occupation. These activities can fill their time and trigger a sense of accomplishment.
Understanding the reasons for dementia-related hiding can help you address the situation with patience and empathy. Try:
- Maintaining a routine: A predictable daily routine can provide a feeling of security and reduce anxiety. Regularly scheduled meals, rest times, and activities can help create an organized environment that feels safe and familiar.
- Labeling common hiding spots: Clearly label storage areas, drawers, and cupboards. This can serve as a helpful reminder of where things belong and can decrease the odds of items being hidden in unusual places.
- Providing engaging, meaningful activities: Keep their minds and hands busy with activities that are appropriate for their abilities and interests. Simple tasks like sorting, folding, or working with sensory objects can be both calming and fulfilling.
- Creating a secure and structured environment: Ensure that their living area is organized and free of hazards. Consistency in the arrangement of furniture and personal items can minimize confusion and make it easier for them to find what they need.
The Comfi-Kare Homecare team is also here to partner with you to ease the underlying cause behind hiding items and other challenging effects of dementia. Reach out to us online or call 240-750-6617 to learn more about our highly creative and specialized in-home dementia care in Silver Spring, Bethesda, Rockville, and throughout Montgomery County.